The Bachelorette‘s Emily Maynard has split with her fiance from the show, Jef Holm, just a few months after the show’s finale.
Rumors have been swirling this week on the internet and apparently it’s true. The break up was confirmed by both Emily and Jef in separate statements to People magazine on Tuesday.
“I am sorry to tell you that Jef and I have, indeed, parted ways. It was a very difficult and heartbreaking decision. As you know, at first I wasn’t sure that I should even be The Bachelorette, but I am a hopeless romantic and I do believe in the show. I have no regrets because I did find love and shared an incredible journey with a really special person – and you know what, we tried our best because the love between us was so real. I have nothing but respect and love for Jef and his family, but ultimately we are just at different points in our lives. I’ve learned so much and I’m grateful for all of the support I’ve received. I’m excited and hopeful for the next chapter in my life with my daughter, Ricki. I do hope that you will respect our privacy and allow us the time we need to heal.”
Jef also released a statement:
“Meeting Emily on The Bachelorette was an incredible experience, we’ve had quite the journey. I’ve never loved someone so much in my whole life, Emily is the best person and mom I have ever met. She opened up her world to me and I fell in love with her, [her daughter] Ricki, her family and the Hendricks. She has a great group of people who surround her. What we shared was completely genuine and real and it breaks my heart but we have decided to break up. Emily will always have a special place in my heart. I don’t regret a single second I spent with her or Ricki. They both have been a huge part of my life. Who knows what tomorrow will bring but we are moving on to the next chapter of our lives. Emily and I are great friends and I hope we can continue to be friends forever. Everyone wants a salacious story to break, but the truth is we are just two people who fell in love and tried our hardest to make it work. I will always love her.”
Funny, Emily and Jef sure seems hell bent on us believing the show, and their love, was real, but methinks Emily simply did it for the paycheck. I think The Bachelorette made her a fat offer and she took it. We’ve heard Emily scored $250,000 to be The Bachelorette, and for a single mom, that is quite enticing. It’s twice the amount others have made and Emily says herself she didn’t want to be on the show to begin with. I don’t think she was truly ready to settle down and get married, especially so quickly, and under those circumstances. If she met her soulmate, BONUS! But I think she fulfilled an obligation, got paid, and now she’s ready to cash her check and move on.